Going Condomless? Reduce Your Risk!

Anal Sex without a condom is High Risk for HIV!

But if you ever have unprotected anal sex, there's some important stuff to think about.

• some guys make the informed choice to have anal sex without condoms. they know the risks of getting HIV and other STDs
  , but decide the risks are worth taking.
• some guys don't want to think about the consequences that may result from unprotected sex.
• some guys intend to use condoms when they have anal sex but "slip up" sometimes. maybe it happens when using drugs or alcohol.
• some guys feel more relaxed about not using condoms when they're in a relationship or feel sure their partner's negative.
• some guys have a tough time getting or keeping a hard-on when using a condom and give up on 'em. prescription drugs like VIAGRA may make condom use easier!

If you do go rubberless, reduce your risk! Here's how...

• use lots of lube and take plenty of time to relax the ass. a tear in the ass or on the cock can let HIV into the bloodstream.
• reduce the amount of pre-cum and cum in your ass. cum and pre-cum transmit HIV. some guys pull out before they cum. the transmission risk is higher the more pre-cum or cum you get in your ass.
• avoid ass-play on the day you fuck. if you use a dildo or fist, these can both leave small tears in your asshole. those tears present a direct entry route for HIV. do your ass-play on another day.
• be aware of STDs. If you are HIV-negative, STDs
  like gonorrhea and herpes can make it easier for you to get HIV. For POZ guys, STDs
  can present a serious health concern.
• minimize or eliminate popper use. poppers expand blood vessels inside your ass, making tears more likely. those tears present a direct entry route for HIV.
• avoid douching (rinsing out your ass) before anal sex. douching or having an enema may increase the risk of contracting HIV. the inside of your ass has a protective lining that douching removes, making tears while being fucked more likely.
• negotiate safety with your sex partner(s). some guys feel it's ok to have rubberless anal sex in a monogamous relationship where they believe their partner is HIV negative. are you sure you know what you think you know?
• maintain good anal health. get to know your asshole - feel yourself for bumps or sores or anything unusual.
• get regular checkups, exercise and eat a healthy diet.

And Remember ... Anal Sex without a condom is High Risk for HIV. Make informed choices.

What about Sucking Cock?

Is there anything I can do to reduce the risk of getting HIV if I don't use a condom?

Yes.

• make sure you have good oral hygiene. that means no sores in the mouth and healthy gums (no bleeding!)
• reduce the amount of cum in your mouth (having him cum outside your mouth is a big help). if he cums in your mouth, spit it out or swallow right away. reducing the amount of time the cum is in your mouth reduces your risk.
• avoid giving head if he has any sores on his dick or balls (could be an STD
  )
• avoid or reduce heavy cocksucking such as deep-throating (if his cock is slamming against the back of your throat, this can cause irritation and weaken tissue, which can allow HIV into your bloodstream).
• minimize or eliminate popper use. poppers dilate (expand) blood vessels, including inside your mouth and throat, making small tears more likely. those tears present a direct entry route for HIV.
• avoid sucking cock if you've had a recent tongue or lip piercing. make sure it's fully healed.
• avoid sucking cock if you've had recent dental work. again, wait until it's fully healed.

Remember ... Using a condom is the safest option. Make informed choices.