All About Condoms

Latex allergy! Help!

You're not alone! Many guys have latex allergies and find condom use difficult
for that reason. Try polyeurethane condoms such as Avanti, the Reality female
condom, or eZ-on condoms. They are pricier than latex, but if you have an allergy,
you won't break out. Avoid natural condoms like lamb intestine, as they are
porous (have tiny holes you can't see) and won't protect you from HIV!

Condoms wreck my hard-on!

A lot of guys deal with this - and not just older guys. There are two main
things that you can try. One is the Reality female condom (available
at drug stores and at AVI). The second is to talk to your doctor about Viagra
or a similar prescription. Many guys find that one of these helps them
to use condoms with satisfaction.

Putting a bit of water-based lube in the inside of the condom will increase
the stimulation, too. Just be careful that you are using only a little in the
tip; do not lube your cock prior to putting a condom on, as this will increase
the likelihood of the condom coming off or leaking during sex. And using a cock-ring
often helps!

If you have trouble keeping it up with a condom on, try some of these ideas
before giving up on rubbers. And remember - there is nothing wrong with you!

Condoms are too small!

Extra-sized condoms. Larger condoms are available at most drug stores and we
often have them at AVI. Ask us! Using a condom that is too small can put undue
stress on the condom and increase the likelihood of breakage.

Should I use nonoxynol-9 condoms?

NO! Don't go using Nonoxynol 9 (spermicidal) condoms. Spermicide is an irritant
to sensitive mucous membranes in your ass (the lining). Using spermicidal condoms
may actually increase the likelihood of HIV transmission during anal (or vaginal)
sex.

What about lube?

Water-based lubes are best. Oil-based lubes will break down the latex in the
condom, making breakage or leakage more likely. You can use oil-based lubes
with polyeurethane condoms though! And silicone-based lubes are safe to use
with any condoms. Many guys find silicone-based lubes slipperier and preferable
to water-based lubes.

Enjoy!

Rubbers 'n Lube appeared in the Spring, 2002 issue of Men's Briefs, the newsletter
of the Men's Wellness Program. If you are on Vancouver Island and would like
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